Monday, April 18, 2011

698th Issue of the LFCA

Welcome to today's edition of Connections Abound. The point of Lost and Found is to level the support playing field. When LFCA works correctly, the newest blogger with the smallest readership can receive the same level of support as the oldest blogger with the largest readership. Anyone can submit news to LFCA by clicking here.

Lost and Found is open to anyone in the
infertility, pregnancy loss, adoption, pregnancy-and-parenting after infertility, assisted conception, living child-free after infertility or loss community (as well as anyone I inadvertently missed on that list). Please support the list as well as anyone posting announcements below.

Connections Abound

MISCELLANEOUS NEWS
New
  • Project: The Ladies in Waiting Book Club is hosting a special challenge corresponding with Resolve's "Bust an Infertility Myth" Blog Challenge. Register to bust a myth during NAIW and receive a special gift (all participants) and maybe win the grand prize, a free copy of Circle+Bloom's Mind/Body Program for Infertility ($69) value. Help us raise awareness during National Infertility Awareness Week.
  • Project: RESOLVE's My Destination Family writes, "We would love for you to show your support for infertility awareness by stamping your Twitter and/or Facebook picture with RESOLVE’s logo, in the form of what’s called a Twibbon. RESOLVE’s logo represents all the family building options available to those trying to conceive, including embryo donation."
  • Private Blog: Mrs Babydream's blog has gone "private" temporarily. Any readers/followers can just email her for access.
  • Grants: Parenthood for Me raised $17,000 at their annual gala April 2. They are accepting grant applications until May 1, 2011.
  • Advice: Vicky is exploring the option of doing an IVF cycle in the US, specifically in Atlanta. Any suggestions or advice would be welcomed.
  • Giveaway: InDueTime is giving away a copy of Two Kisses for Maddy.
  • Project: Calliope at Creating Motherhood says, "A group of bloggers that met in the ALI trenches formed a site that has nothing to do with ALI. We publish tons of quick articles all day that will inform you and make you smile. Sometimes it's just hard to be in the world of va-jay-jays - check out our site and we promise no celebrity bump watch news!"
  • Sperm Bank Directory: Fertility Nation just launched a nationwide US sperm bank directory--the most complete one of its kind. If you're on the hunt for a sperm donor for IUI or IVF, of if you need to freeze sperm for later use, this is a great resource.
  • Project: In an attempt to honor her fellow blogger's journeys and give her new knitting addiction a purpose, ebc has started an Honor Blanket Donation Project. She would like to knit and donate a small blanket in honor and memory of your kiddos who didn't get to come home with you or who aren't here yet even as a memory. Currently, donations will be sent to Forever Warm, who provides a blanket when a baby is born sleeping, though she also wants to connect with an international orphanage as well. To request one, all you have to do is email her at ebc.adoption (at) gmail (dot) com with your color choices. Just to clarify--she will supply the yarn and the knitting and the shipping... all you have to do is request one!
  • Daily Creme Update: There are currently 306 participants on the Creme de la Creme list (and 370 total currently in the queue to get on the list). The list is now closed. Make sure to check back often as new posts will go up daily.
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  • First Time Reading the LFCA: If this is your first time reading the LFCA or you need a refresher about how the LFCA works, please read this post. It has everything you need to know about getting your news in the LFCA.
  • Quicklink Resources: Regular ALI Blogroll: If you would like your blog added to the ALI blogroll, please email me directly with your blog url and category pick. More information about being added is contained in that link. Password-Protected Blogroll: If you would like your password-protected blog added to the blogroll, please fill out the form.
NEW BLOGS (started in March or April 2011)
BIRTHDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES (celebrate your birthday or blogoversary with the community. Send me date at any point and I'll post them on the correct day)
  • Making Me Mom is celebrating her birthday on Wednesday. Go sing her a little song.
  • Henry Street is celebrating her blogoversary on Saturday. Go wish her congratulations.
  • Stacie The 15th was Stacie's 4th blogoversary! Stop by to have a little cake and celebrate with her!
  • Annie is celebrating her two year blogoversary with a giveaway! Enter by Monday, April 18.
LOSS REMEMBRANCES (send in the dates of loss anniversaries and I will post them on the correct day)
  • JuliaS is remembering on Thursday Caelan who she lost in 1998. Please give her support.
  • Saturday is the unfulfilled due date of ZoĆ« and Lennox. Please give Allison support.
LOSS ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • Kristen is suffering through a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks. Please stop by with some words of love and support.
  • Cherm29 found out today that her BFP was a chemical pregnancy.
  • My Seriously Broken Oven just went through her fourth loss. She could really use some love and support.
  • Chloe and her husband just lost their triplets at 18 weeks when Baby A's membrane ruptured and she got an infection.
  • Amy's beta's are dropping and she is miscarrying for the second time in 4 months. Her faith is strong, but she could use some words of support ant encouragement.
  • Christina has just found out about the loss of her twins in the first trimester of pregnancy.
MISCELLANEOUS SUPPORT AND CELEBRATIONS (scary scans, anxious waits, OHSS, and a host of other reasons why these bloggers could use some additional support right now. Also, celebratory retrievals, transfers, and other good news)
  • Abracadabra Baby is anxiously awaiting news of healthy embryos for her upcoming transfer (IVF w/ PGD #2). Please stop by with your well wishes.
  • Waiting for the Ukulele returned from a blogging hiatus to share that she lost her father, mother and grandmother all in the past seven months. Please go give her a virtual hug.
  • Jen is relatively new to the infertility blogging community. She has had 2 miscarriages in the last 8 months, and was recently diagnosed with Factor V and MTHFR. She will be placed on heparin shots the next time she is pregnant, and is just waiting for her chance. Please stop by and show her some support.
  • Mina's mother was recently diagnosed with cancer and she's reeling. Please stop by and hold her hand for a while.
  • Creating a Family has information on the delays in receiving the Federal Adoption Tax Credit refund.
  • Being Barren just found out that her sister has cancer.
  • Baby Steps to Motherhood is having a rough time dealing with life right now and could use some extra encouragement and support.
  • Project Baby is on an extended break from ttc and beginning to explore thoughts of living childfree. She could use some extra support right now.
  • Annabelle is reeling from a diagnosis of male factor infertility. She is devastated and asking for prayers.
  • Lauren just got a bfn from her IVF cycle and is feeling heartbroken and hopeless. She is also starting a new job tomorrow. She could use some love.
BEDREST BABES: on bedrest following infertility or loss and needing support. Drop in on them and keep them company. Blurbs running underneath the "new" line are from this week, and the ones above that line will disappear on Sunday. Please do not re-list bedrest blurbs.
  • None Today.
PREGNANCY ANNOUNCEMENTS AND NEWS
  • My Grasp at Sanity got a BFP!
  • Here's to Unwavering Hope has just unveiled a secret she has been keeping. Head on over to see her exciting last few weeks.
  • Manda and J are going for an ultrasound tomorrow to determine if their daughter has a cleft lip. Good thoughts are appreciated.
  • At 20 weeks pregnant with twins, Rosie landed herself in the ER with extremely high blood pressure. There are also some concerns about one of her babies which led to a referral for a special sonogram next week. Please let her know that she doesn't have to go through all of this on her own.
BIRTH AND ADOPTION ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • Tigger finally had baby Colson on April 4th, after two inductions. Please go over and celebrate with her and her husband as they learn to be parents at last.
  • Ally is proud to announce the adoption of her daughter, Josephine. Josie was an unexpected, but very welcome, surprise into Ally's life on April 3rd. She came home on Wednesday, April 6th and Ally, CatDaddy, and baby are thrilled to be together!
  • CeeJay welcomed Braxon on Saturday, Apr. 9th! Please go and celebrate with her!
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Sunday, April 10, 2011

697th Issue of the LFCA

Welcome to today's edition of Connections Abound. The point of Lost and Found is to level the support playing field. When LFCA works correctly, the newest blogger with the smallest readership can receive the same level of support as the oldest blogger with the largest readership. Anyone can submit news to LFCA by clicking here.

Lost and Found is open to anyone in the
infertility, pregnancy loss, adoption, pregnancy-and-parenting after infertility, assisted conception, living child-free after infertility or loss community (as well as anyone I inadvertently missed on that list). Please support the list as well as anyone posting announcements below.

Connections Abound

MISCELLANEOUS NEWS
New
  • Book Tour: Kathy at Four of a Kind is hosting a book tour, with author participation, for Inconceivable: A Medical Mistake, the Baby We Couldn't Keep and Our Choice to Deliver the Ultimate Gift by Carolyn and Sean Savage. Kathy and Carolyn met and became friends four years ago when they were in a “cycle buddy” group on IVF Connections. Please click over to find out more and to sign up to participate in the tour. The Fertility Blogs is also doing a live chat about the book.
  • Television Appearance: Watch Parenthood for Me on TV. Erica speaks about the history of the nonprofit and meet Dr. Eberhard Muechler, MD. He performed the very first in vitro fertilization procedure at the University of Rochester Medical Center.
  • Fundraiser: A.M.S. says, "Team On The Road (otherwise known as A.M.S, Shannon, and Olivia Moonpie) has almost reached its fund raising goal of $1000 for the March of Dimes' March for Babies! Another $250 and they'll be there! If you would like to donate, please visit their team page or if you'd like to know other ways to help out, please visit this blog post."
  • Submit Stories: Submissions wanted for Project IF: Uncommon Nonsense is looking for submissions from the Blogosphere to help other infertile women and their families. Visit her page to learn more about how your Blogger stories can help others. Remember, each of our stories has the ability to connect with at least one person, helping them to feel just a little less alone as they journey through this difficult time in their lives.
  • Television: Annette Benavides is auditioning for the Biggest Loser show on NBC. Please visit her blog, watch her story, and share if you wish. She tells the story of her struggles with weight and self esteem, and speaks about pregnancy loss (stillbirth and miscarriage). Her video can be found on her blog or at http://www.vimeo.com/annettebiggestloser/audition.
  • Question: Invisible Mother is looking for information about reproductive immunology (RI). She is particularly interested in the personal experiences of anyone who considered RI testing/treatments, regardless of whether you eventually decided to use the treatments offered or not. Success stories, with or without treatment, would be much appreciated. Also, information about treatment-related side-effects, and treatment effectiveness would be very helpful. Please share your stories on her blog.
  • Daily Creme Update: There are currently 306 participants on the Creme de la Creme list (and 370 total currently in the queue to get on the list). The list is now closed. Make sure to check back often as new posts will go up daily.
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  • First Time Reading the LFCA: If this is your first time reading the LFCA or you need a refresher about how the LFCA works, please read this post. It has everything you need to know about getting your news in the LFCA.
  • Quicklink Resources: Regular ALI Blogroll: If you would like your blog added to the ALI blogroll, please email me directly with your blog url and category pick. More information about being added is contained in that link. Password-Protected Blogroll: If you would like your password-protected blog added to the blogroll, please fill out the form.
NEW BLOGS (started in March or April 2011)
BIRTHDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES (celebrate your birthday or blogoversary with the community. Send me date at any point and I'll post them on the correct day)
  • I Won't Fear Love is celebrating her blogoversary on Tuesday. Go wish her congratulations.
  • Hobbit-ish Thoughts and Ramblings is celebrating her anniversary on Thursday. Go wish them congratulations.
  • Candi is celebrating her birthday next Saturday. Go sing her a little song.
  • The Braces Bunch anniversary is next Sunday!
  • Kathy is celebrating her 4th Blogoversary today (Sunday, April 10th) and reflecting on what she has learned over the past 4 years!
LOSS REMEMBRANCES (send in the dates of loss anniversaries and I will post them on the correct day)
  • JuliaS is remembering next Saturday Lilith "Lily," the girl she lost in 2002. Please give her support.
  • Meant to Be is remembering her daughter, who was born still one year ago. Go leave her words of love.
  • Sunday, April 17, 2011 is the 3rd anniversary of Kathy's daughter Molly's birth and death. Kathy will be honoring and remembering Molly's short, but very special, life and memory that day.
LOSS ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • None Today.
MISCELLANEOUS SUPPORT AND CELEBRATIONS (scary scans, anxious waits, OHSS, and a host of other reasons why these bloggers could use some additional support right now. Also, celebratory retrievals, transfers, and other good news)
  • Fertility Nation created an infographic on 10 popular sayings that hurt infertile people's feelings. How many of these sayings have people said to you?
  • Waiting for u, baby is gearing up for an April FET - wish her luck!
  • Shannon is back after IVF success in September 2009 to do FET for a try at baby#2. Started cycling this week!
  • Sara could use some extra support as she reels from an unsuccessful mTESE and canceled IVF cycle. Drop by and give her some extra love and encouragement as she figures out how to proceed.
BEDREST BABES: on bedrest following infertility or loss and needing support. Drop in on them and keep them company. Blurbs running underneath the "new" line are from this week, and the ones above that line will disappear on Sunday. Please do not re-list bedrest blurbs.
  • No New Ones
  • Sparklythings had a scary bleed and then went into pre-term labor at 28 weeks. She is just home from the hospital and is now on complete bed rest (she is happy to be home though!). Besides reading and watching movies and RHOC, what can she do? What is easy to learn - crochet? Knitting? Productivity while prone... advice needed.
PREGNANCY ANNOUNCEMENTS AND NEWS
  • Elm City Mom saw a heartbeat!
  • After a tumultuous couple weeks, including betas that didn't rise, Gwinne's little peanut has a heartbeat. Keep her company while she waits for her next ultrasound.
  • After 4 miscarriages, Mrs. Brightside just found out that she is once again pregnant. She could use everyone’s support during these trying first weeks to help her keep up her zen, zen, zen motto.
  • Pinky just had a very disappointing first ultrasound for her pregnancy after IVF. Baby is measuring over a week behind. Please surround her with love.
  • After a six year journey through infertility, Miss Mac is expecting her miracle(s)! Stop on over to congratulate a very sweet woman on some much deserved good news!
  • Amy is pregnant! Join her in celebrating this special news.
  • Kerri is celebrating her second beta and a positive pregnancy! Send her some love!
  • The lovely Augusta is backing in the glow of her amazing positive pregnancy. She leaves the most beautiful comments for all of us, and would love to see some sweet comments sharing the love.
  • And So it Goes is 11 weeks pregnant after IVF/ICSI#1 and considering an out-of-hospital birth at a birth center with a licensed midwife. She would love to hear from any IFers that chose this route or considered a similar route.
  • Please congratulate Melissa over at Banking on It. She just received her BFP after IVF!
  • Hope Is a Four Letter Word is cautiously ecstatic about her positive beta! Stop by and celebrate with her.
BIRTH AND ADOPTION ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • Elizabeth and her family have brought home Annaliese from Korea! Please go and wish them congratulations on their new daughter!
  • Stacie from Life As I Know It (formerly H.eee.re.Stor.key!) gave birth to Jackson Reece on Wednesday, March 30th! Congratulations!
Read and Support

Sunday, April 3, 2011

696th Issue of the LFCA

Welcome to today's edition of Connections Abound. The point of Lost and Found is to level the support playing field. When LFCA works correctly, the newest blogger with the smallest readership can receive the same level of support as the oldest blogger with the largest readership. Anyone can submit news to LFCA by clicking here.

Lost and Found is open to anyone in the
infertility, pregnancy loss, adoption, pregnancy-and-parenting after infertility, assisted conception, living child-free after infertility or loss community (as well as anyone I inadvertently missed on that list). Please support the list as well as anyone posting announcements below.

Connections Abound

MISCELLANEOUS NEWS
New
  • Helpful Site: It's that time again! The latest cyclesista post is up. Visit to support bloggers who are actively cycling this month, or to add your own blog to the list.
  • Connections: Leigh at My Hormonacoaster starts stims for her first IVF cycle on April 3rd and wants to hear from others who are cycling with her plus or minus a week. Also, if there are any LFCA bloggers who are patients at Willis Knighton, she would love to be in contact with someone in the same geographical area as herself. Please stop by her blog and say hi!
  • Connections: Infertile, not Inferior / kate uncensored writes, "I'm infertile, not inferior author, Kate, and I am looking to reconnect with anyone who remembers me. I'm childless, still blogging and trying to find those who helped me through my past journeys."
  • Update: An article on the p17 shots (Makena) that people were discussing a few weeks ago.
  • Advice: Barely Sane writes, "I could really use some feedback regarding getting medical information from birth families post adoption. A recent trip to the hospital has magnified the issue, even though it's not one I put much weight in before.
  • Vote: Lori Lavender Luz is vying to be a model for Yoga Journal. Please vote for her (5 stars!) daily, on every computer you can, if only for the simple fact that she is wearing more clothing than anyone else in the competition. Any help spreading the word would be ohm-tastic. Through April 15.
  • Password Protected: Seriously?! has decided to go somewhat private. Ugh. After a few shaky encounters with people IRL, she's decided it's time to be able to go completely uncensored. Woo hoo! She'd love to have you join her as she's totally comitted to the ALI community. Please email her at seriouslyblogspot@gmail.com.
  • Resolve: New England Fertility invited the public to the following April Events.
    April 14th Building Families though Egg Donation, Double Tree Hotel Norwalk CT 5:30pm RSVP mwelch@nefertility.com AND April 26th Kristen Magnacca presents "Emotional Aspects of Infertility," based on her award winning book Love and Infertility. Westport Woman's Center 44 Imperial Ave. Westport CT 6:30 pm RSVP mwelch@nefertility.com.
  • Internet Show: Mom At Last is looking for guest bloggers and guests on her internet tv show Mom At Last on Mom TV. email- sharon@momatlast.com.
  • Helpful Post: Whitney Anderson writes, "I wrote a lengthy survival guide about recurrent miscarriage and testing. This is something I wish I had read a couple of years ago. I want to share this information with the women out there who are just beginning to deal with this, so they know what to do and what their options are."
  • Support: Telumee Miracle writes, "Please help! An IF sister and Intended Mother in a defaulted traditional surrogacy is being sued by the county to pay child support to the baby that she has never even had the pleasure of meeting! It will cost thousands of dollars to defend herself against this ridiculous legal action, on top of the thousands of dollars she's already spent on this nightmare. She needs media attention or pro bono representation in Santa Clara County in California. For more, see http://lachaim.wordpress.com/the-bete-noire/ Thank you!"
  • Daily Creme Update: There are currently 306 participants on the Creme de la Creme list (and 370 total currently in the queue to get on the list). The list is now closed. Make sure to check back often as new posts will go up daily.
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  • First Time Reading the LFCA: If this is your first time reading the LFCA or you need a refresher about how the LFCA works, please read this post. It has everything you need to know about getting your news in the LFCA.
  • Quicklink Resources: Regular ALI Blogroll: If you would like your blog added to the ALI blogroll, please email me directly with your blog url and category pick. More information about being added is contained in that link. Password-Protected Blogroll: If you would like your password-protected blog added to the blogroll, please fill out the form.
NEW BLOGS (started in March or April 2011)
BIRTHDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES (celebrate your birthday or blogoversary with the community. Send me date at any point and I'll post them on the correct day)
LOSS REMEMBRANCES (send in the dates of loss anniversaries and I will post them on the correct day)
  • Sunday is the first anniversary of stillbirth of Car's son Reid. This week has been made even more difficult by the discovery that her much longed for subsequent pregnancy was a blighted ovum. Please stop by and remember Reid with her.
LOSS ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • Jen just got confirmation of a chemical pregnancy from her first IVF cycle.
  • Eggs in a Basketcase is currently experiencing a loss. Please hold her in your heart.
  • Please head on over to Searching for Serenity. She recently lost her precious Xander at 16 weeks. She could really use some hugs right now.
  • Rainbows & Earthquakes is coping with the death of her son Joel, please abide with her during this time of intense grief.
MISCELLANEOUS SUPPORT AND CELEBRATIONS (scary scans, anxious waits, OHSS, and a host of other reasons why these bloggers could use some additional support right now. Also, celebratory retrievals, transfers, and other good news)
  • Mrs Babydream just got a bfn on her second FET cycle. Lots of support needed.
  • Last February, the Johnson's discovered they were expecting twins. 3 weeks later, Baby B's heart stopped beating. 10 weeks later, Baby B was fully absorbed by Mrs. Johnson's placenta. The Johnson's have 4 living children (the twin pregnancy was the 4th pregnancy).
  • After a blogging hiatus of almost 2 years, Be Still and Know is back to announce that her IVF cycle worked and resulted in a son who is now 10 months old, and she's resumed IVF to TTC #2.
  • Brave IVF Girl just got a negative from IVF #4 after miscarriages from IVF #1 and #3. She could use some love.
  • JJ the beloved blogger and creator of the braces bunch could use all the love and support people are willing to give as she deals with her recent cancer diagnosis.
  • Perpetual Ambition is having a tough time after IUI #3 didn't work. She doesn't feel like she can go to her friends and family to talk about her struggle so please stop on over and show her some love.
  • Kechara of Notes from the Ninth Circle is relatively okay but very sore after being rear-ended on 3/24. She is disappointed that this probably means no BD for this month.
  • The Childless Mom's hubby is recovering from MESA surgery and they have sperm. Prayers and blog love appreciated!
  • IF in Big Sky Country's husband is recovering from cancer surgery. Please go over and give them love and good thoughts.
BEDREST BABES: on bedrest following infertility or loss and needing support. Drop in on them and keep them company. Blurbs running underneath the "new" line are from this week, and the ones above that line will disappear on Sunday. Please do not re-list bedrest blurbs.
  • Sparklythings had a scary bleed and then went into pre-term labor at 28 weeks. She is just home from the hospital and is now on complete bed rest (she is happy to be home though!). Besides reading and watching movies and RHOC, what can she do? What is easy to learn - crochet? Knitting? Productivity while prone... advice needed.
PREGNANCY ANNOUNCEMENTS AND NEWS
  • None Today.
BIRTH AND ADOPTION ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • Bum Uterus (Relaxing Doesn't Get You Pregnant) gave birth to Logan Charley on Sunday the 27th. Congratulations!
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