Sunday, December 18, 2011

724th Issue of the LFCA

Welcome to today's edition of Connections Abound. The point of Lost and Found is to level the support playing field. When LFCA works correctly, the newest blogger with the smallest readership can receive the same level of support as the oldest blogger with the largest readership. Anyone can submit news to LFCA by clicking here.

Lost and Found is open to anyone in the
infertility, pregnancy loss, adoption, pregnancy-and-parenting after infertility, assisted conception, living child-free after infertility or loss community (as well as anyone I inadvertently missed on that list). Please support the list as well as anyone posting announcements below.

Connections Abound

MISCELLANEOUS NEWS
New
  • Book: Lori Lavender Luz and her daughter's birth mom, Crystal, announced that they are gestating a book titled, "The Open-Hearted Way to Open Adoption: Helping Your Child Grow Up Whole." Published by Rowman & Littlefield, its estimated due date is mid-2013. Go cheer their two pink lines!
  • Blog Move: Missohkay recently moved from blogspot to wordpress. Please update your links.
  • Missing Blogger: AFM asks: "Does anyone know what has happened to OnetoKeep.wordpress.com? The blog has gone private and I have tried to contact her to no avail. Our journeys were similar, and I hope she is doing okay."
  • Congratulations: Pundelina Kafoops has been accepted into a PhD program with full scholarship! Congratulations!
  • Vote: Michaela at Sayler, Am I Pregnant Yet writes, "I would love for you to let everyone know that I have been selected as 1 of 10 finalist in a contest to win a free IVF cycle with the Sher Institute for Reproductive Medicine! People can view the story we submitted here on Vimeo and then they can vote for us here on SIRM's website (Michaela & Kyle). We are so excited about the possibility of winning this contest and would love for you to share our story not only for the contest but because we want to spread the word about difficult infertility is. Voting ends Monday and the winner will be announced Wednesday!"
  • Fertility Coaching: Michele writes, "The Fertility Dialogues is a six-week professionally led coaching circle for women who are experiencing challenges on their road to motherhood. Through an experiential and interactive process, we will help you determine the choices for building your family in a way that feels right for you. We will explore options for realizing the dream of motherhood (e.g., adoption, IVF, donor, surrogacy, fostering) The sessions will be held in downtown Takoma Park on Thursday nights from 7 - 9pm, starting January 19, 2012. For more information, please contact fertilitydialogues@gmail.com or 202-352-3208."
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  • First Time Reading the LFCA: If this is your first time reading the LFCA or you need a refresher about how the LFCA works, please read this post. It has everything you need to know about getting your news in the LFCA.
  • Quicklink Resources: Regular ALI Blogroll: If you would like your blog added to the ALI blogroll, please email me directly with your blog url and category pick. More information about being added is contained in that link. Password-Protected Blogroll: If you would like your password-protected blog added to the blogroll, please fill out the form.
NEW BLOGS (started in November or December 2011)
BIRTHDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES (celebrate your birthday or blogoversary with the community. Send me date at any point and I'll post them on the correct day)
  • My Lady of the Lantern is celebrating her birthday on December 29th. Go sing her a little song.
  • Creating Motherhood is celebrating her birthday on December 24th. Go have a slice of cake with her.
  • Susan is turning 34 on December 26th. Go leave her some birthday love!
  • Mo just celebrated her first blogoversary! Go wish her (and the Shmaby) congrats!
LOSS REMEMBRANCES (send in the dates of loss anniversaries and I will post them on the correct day)
  • None Today.
LOSS ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • Tanika said goodbye to her 4th angel on December 8th. Sweet Israel Grayson passed on due to a cord incident 9 days before he was to be delivered by c-section. Please stop by and flood her with love.
MISCELLANEOUS SUPPORT AND CELEBRATIONS (scary scans, anxious waits, OHSS, and a host of other reasons why these bloggers could use some additional support right now. Also, celebratory retrievals, transfers, and other good news)
  • After many IVF attempts and making the hard decision to live without children, Riley and her husband decided to pursue adoption. After many years of heartache, they have been matched with an expectant mother!
  • Susan finally came out of the closet to announce a private adoption in the works for a baby that is due in 2 months. They just found out that the expectant mom changed her mind Linkand would no longer be placing the baby. She is devastated and feels like all hope is lost.
  • Life With Coco and Gigi's dad has just been diagnosed with lymphoma, and they are working through the process of an exact diagnosis. It is a scary time, and she could use your support and prayers.
  • Slowmamma is having spotting and cramping at 18 weeks. Please stop by and give her a hug.
  • Sweet Mo of Life and Love in the Petri Dish cannot seem to catch a break. Trying to make the difficult move to egg donor has been rife with complexities. She could use a break and a string of miracles, actually, but in the meantime some extra love would be welcome.
BEDREST BABES: on bedrest following infertility or loss and needing support. Drop in on them and keep them company. Blurbs running underneath the "new" line are from this week, and the ones above that line will disappear on Sunday. Please do not re-list bedrest blurbs.
  • None Today.
PREGNANCY ANNOUNCEMENTS AND NEWS
  • Finding My New Normal's DE cycle was a success! She actually got her positive beta back in October but has been too scared to announce her pregnancy over here until now. Now that she's hit 12 weeks she figures it's time to embrace this pregnancy. Even though she knows there is never an "all clear," she is hopeful that this pregnancy will end well and she will be bringing home her rainbow baby in June 2012.
  • JustHeather is celebrating two lines from IVF #3 and after 3 years & 4 months of TTC #1!
  • Rachel is 7 weeks pregnant after a stillbirth (at 33 weeks) in May.
BIRTH AND ADOPTION ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • Bhaji Nightshift is here. The third and final Indian Takeaway joined big sisters Saag and Naan by c-section on the 8th Dec. Go wish Geohde congratulations.
  • Betty and Barney Rubble finalized the adoption of their son, Rocky Bernard Rubble on December 16, 2011 which also happened to be the unfulfilled due date of their son Bam-Bam due in 2008. What a Christmas Miracle for this family!
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Sunday, December 11, 2011

723rd Issue of the LFCA

Welcome to today's edition of Connections Abound. The point of Lost and Found is to level the support playing field. When LFCA works correctly, the newest blogger with the smallest readership can receive the same level of support as the oldest blogger with the largest readership. Anyone can submit news to LFCA by clicking here.

Lost and Found is open to anyone in the
infertility, pregnancy loss, adoption, pregnancy-and-parenting after infertility, assisted conception, living child-free after infertility or loss community (as well as anyone I inadvertently missed on that list). Please support the list as well as anyone posting announcements below.

Connections Abound

MISCELLANEOUS NEWS
New
  • Creme de la Creme: last call for the 2011 Creme de la Creme if you want to ensure that you're on the list when it goes up on January 1st. The deadline is this Thursday - the 15th. You can also enter the contest to win the #2 slot on the list by leaving comments around the blogosphere. The winner will be announced in the next Roundup.
  • Blog Move: Just Let Go is now at Wordpress. Please update your links.
  • Blog Move: RainChild has also moved her blog to Wordpress. The address is http://rainsthoughts.wordpress.com/. Please join her at her new place!
  • Advice: Kechara at Notes from the Ninth Circle found out that she and her husband are both carriers for spinal muscular atrophy and will therefore need IVF with PGD. She has several questions for people who have had PGD done, particularly related to how much it reduced the number of embies for transfer.
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  • First Time Reading the LFCA: If this is your first time reading the LFCA or you need a refresher about how the LFCA works, please read this post. It has everything you need to know about getting your news in the LFCA.
  • Quicklink Resources: Regular ALI Blogroll: If you would like your blog added to the ALI blogroll, please email me directly with your blog url and category pick. More information about being added is contained in that link. Password-Protected Blogroll: If you would like your password-protected blog added to the blogroll, please fill out the form.
NEW BLOGS (started in November or December 2011)
BIRTHDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES (celebrate your birthday or blogoversary with the community. Send me date at any point and I'll post them on the correct day)
  • Luna is celebrating her 4th blogoversary. Go wish her congratulations.
LOSS REMEMBRANCES (send in the dates of loss anniversaries and I will post them on the correct day)
  • None Today.
LOSS ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • Sunnymama thought her recent IVF cycle was over when AF came and her first blood test was a very low hCG, but then it went up at the following blood tests. She has since had surgery as the pregnancy was ectopic and would welcome support.
MISCELLANEOUS SUPPORT AND CELEBRATIONS (scary scans, anxious waits, OHSS, and a host of other reasons why these bloggers could use some additional support right now. Also, celebratory retrievals, transfers, and other good news)
  • The Lucky Life got a BFN on her first IVF Cycle. Please stop by and send her many hugs.
  • Michele just had the successful placement of a TAC with Dr. Haney in Chicago. Please pop over to wish her warm thoughts as she recovers.
BEDREST BABES: on bedrest following infertility or loss and needing support. Drop in on them and keep them company. Blurbs running underneath the "new" line are from this week, and the ones above that line will disappear on Sunday. Please do not re-list bedrest blurbs.
  • Marianne has been on bed rest for 4 weeks for preeclampsia. Please stop by and wish her well!
PREGNANCY ANNOUNCEMENTS AND NEWS
  • Mrs R had a scary trip to the hospital at 24 weeks. Everything seems to be okay with mama and baby, but she could use a little extra love at the moment.
  • Kayleikins is celebrating two little lines!
BIRTH AND ADOPTION ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • Yolk gave birth to a girl, Alice, on December 11th. Go wish her congratulations.
  • Princess Wahna Bea Mama gave birth to her son, Ian, on Saturday, after weeks of hospital bedrest. Baby is doing well but will be in the NICU for a while, as he arrived at 33w2d gestation. Stop by and congratulate her and offer your support as she deals with going home from the hospital without her baby.
  • Josey gave birth to Stella! She was born December 8th and is beautiful and healthy.
  • Mac and PC welcomed Baby Hampton born 12-10-11. Go wish them congratulations.
  • The Johnsons welcomed baby Tristan into their family on December 2nd. Stop by and share your congratulations with them!
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Sunday, December 4, 2011

722nd Issue of the LFCA

Welcome to today's edition of Connections Abound. The point of Lost and Found is to level the support playing field. When LFCA works correctly, the newest blogger with the smallest readership can receive the same level of support as the oldest blogger with the largest readership. Anyone can submit news to LFCA by clicking here.

Lost and Found is open to anyone in the
infertility, pregnancy loss, adoption, pregnancy-and-parenting after infertility, assisted conception, living child-free after infertility or loss community (as well as anyone I inadvertently missed on that list). Please support the list as well as anyone posting announcements below.

Connections Abound

MISCELLANEOUS NEWS
New
  • Creme de la Creme: the first deadline for the 2011 Creme de la Creme is quickly approaching. If you want your blog post to be on the list when it goes up January 1st, you need to turn it in by December 15th. All posts that come in between December 15th to January 5th will go up after January 1st.
  • Question: Bea, who just started blogging on IF from Brazil, has a question she has asked many times and is not satisfied with the answers she got so far. The question goes for the lucky ones that got a positive after treatment. When you are on IUI or IVF treatment, IS THAT ANY DIFFERENCE between an unsuccessful cycle and successful cycle during those 14 days wait? Any symptoms, anything? Although her blog is in Portuguese she has a post in English just about this.
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  • First Time Reading the LFCA: If this is your first time reading the LFCA or you need a refresher about how the LFCA works, please read this post. It has everything you need to know about getting your news in the LFCA.
  • Quicklink Resources: Regular ALI Blogroll: If you would like your blog added to the ALI blogroll, please email me directly with your blog url and category pick. More information about being added is contained in that link. Password-Protected Blogroll: If you would like your password-protected blog added to the blogroll, please fill out the form.
NEW BLOGS (started in November or December 2011)
BIRTHDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES (celebrate your birthday or blogoversary with the community. Send me date at any point and I'll post them on the correct day)
LOSS REMEMBRANCES (send in the dates of loss anniversaries and I will post them on the correct day)
  • The Maybe Baby (Babies) will be remembering Jovi and Isa tomorrow on December 5th. Please give her a lot of love.
  • Next Saturday, the 10th, Mrs. Spit will be remembering Gabriel on the day of his birth and death. Please give her support.
  • Jessica is remembering her sons, William and Ethan, on what should be their 1st birthday on December 4th.
  • December 5 is the one year anniversary of Brandy's son, Andrew, who was born still. Please remember him with her.
  • December 6 is the one year anniversary of the birth of Brooke's daughter, Eliza, who was born still. Please give her support.
LOSS ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • Amanda's father passed away following a very brave battle with colon cancer. She could use some extra support right now.
MISCELLANEOUS SUPPORT AND CELEBRATIONS (scary scans, anxious waits, OHSS, and a host of other reasons why these bloggers could use some additional support right now. Also, celebratory retrievals, transfers, and other good news)
  • Amy asks how to find her confidence again after a few stressful moments with her 9 month old son this week.
  • Manapan writes, "My cousin doesn't blog, but she could really use some prayers right now. Her SAIF baby boy, Lucas, was born on Thanksgiving. He's currently experiencing heart failure and is being considered for a transplant. I want to let her know that lots of people out there are hoping for the best for Lucas. And if the worst happens, I want her to know there's a supportive blog community out there for her. I would love to pass on your comments to her but my blog is a secret from my family, so I made a placeholder one just for her. Thank you."
  • Please bring your favourite swear word to the comment section to show your support after a third failed IVF cycle that just happened over at Womb For Improvement.
  • Jenni and Jackobe are dealing with another unsuccessful IVF cycle. They are feeling really beaten down and could use some extra love.
  • Chicago Shells and her wife are gearing up to begin TTC, but C.S. was hit by a drunk driver while walking across the street. She was severely injured. She could really use cheering and support while she works to regain full use of her legs, especially since her injuries will mean postponing their TTC process. She's new to the ALI community -- please stop by and welcome her.
BEDREST BABES: on bedrest following infertility or loss and needing support. Drop in on them and keep them company. Blurbs running underneath the "new" line are from this week, and the ones above that line will disappear on Sunday. Please do not re-list bedrest blurbs.
  • None Today.
PREGNANCY ANNOUNCEMENTS AND NEWS
BIRTH AND ADOPTION ANNOUNCEMENTS
  • Please congratulate Elm City Mom and Dad on the birth of Zephyr. It has been a long, hard road since they lost their beloved son Silas three years ago.
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